Fun fact: submissives who have specific desires, who have desires, needs, etc about how exactly they want things to happen, etc, are still submissives and as valid as anyone
Just because they’re not compatible with *you* doesn’t mean they aren’t themselves.
(You very much get to not do things with them! You don’t get to try to kick them out of the word.)
(This post is brought to you by me reading posts and being upset.)