Another Personal Update

[The polyamory symbol: a blue infinity symbol over a red outline heart]
The long-distance friend previously mentioned on my ‘people’ page has recently become my wonderful girlfriend.

I am updating the page accordingly.

The people currently in this part of my life

(This way, when I mention them, the mention will make sense).
People I’ve scened with:

People I both know well, and am out to:

  • My, let’s say neighbor, Zack
  • A long-distance friend

Other people

  • The members of my local community, which is, gratefully enough, a positive and interesting place


As noted in the tagline, I’m a kinky asexual with a fondness for words. To take apart this stated identity a bit, asexual-wise, I don’t feel sexual attraction, I find sexuality one of the most fascinating topics in the world, I’m not at all repulsed and in fact am quite the opposite, but I seem to lack the kind of desire for sex most non-asexuals seem to have.

Kinky-wise, I’m a narrative voyeur (I hope to explain what this means at some point) and somewhat of a masochist. I’ve been making up stories involving torture, power dynamics, etc, since I was four, and enjoying them when I ran into them in sources I consumed since not too long after that. I’ve been examining this part of my life since I was about thirteen. At the moment, I’m still very much a practical newbie, but less of one than I was a month ago, which is nice.

Here, I hope to write thoughts, ideas, and analysis on various aspects of BDSM, and also about myself, whether that be things I’ve been thinking about, responses to prompts I find, or something else.

And there we are.